JELLY AND JAM • Everyone Bleeds – 1/18/26
Everyone bleeds. Despite our differences, we all face the same basic challenges: pain, hurt, emptiness, loss. Those mountain highs and those valley lows remind us there is a common vulnerability that binds us together. In this “Jelly and Jam” series, we’re talking about what to do when you get in a jam. Even in the middle of hurt, brokenness, and disillusionment, victory is possible through the hope, peace, love, grace, and power of God.
Today, some of you have a knot in your stomach—worried, afraid, struggling, bleeding. Music has a way of striking a chord and speaking straight to the soul, which is why worship matters so much. When we sing words like, “When I am weak, You make me strong,” something happens inside us. Our thoughts shift, our hearts change, and hope rises as we remember that God has the power to deal with what we’re facing and to deliver us, even when the situation feels impossible.
Paul and Silas were thrown in prison for doing exactly what God had called them to do. While bruised, beaten and in chains, they worshiped and sang to God. The prison was shaken by an earthquake, and all the cell doors flew open, the chains fell off. Deliverance came as they worshiped. The same God delivered Daniel from the lion’s den and the three Hebrew boys from the fire, and He can deliver us too. It may not be today or tomorrow, but there is hope. Worship brings us assurance and inner peace as we expectantly seek God. When we worship, our perspective changes—we’re reminded of what God has done and who God is. With God everything is possible.
When we refuse to worship, anxiety grows, negativity rules, comparison creeps in, and discouragement settles into our hearts. Asaph was where some of us are today, and in Psalm 73 he tells how he was filled with envy and bitterness until he entered the sanctuary of God. It wasn’t until he worshiped, that his thinking turned around. Worship exposed his heart, changed his focus, and reminded him of God’s power and presence.
Worship is powerful. It is a life-changing choice. When you’re hurting, disappointed, afraid, or bleeding, it’s hard to worship, but it is an act of faith and a statement of trust. Like Paul and Silas singing in chains, we choose praise first and trust God for transformation. God is bigger than anything you face. When you’re bleeding—worship.
Scriptures – Philippians 4:13 (NKJV); Matthew 19:26 (NLT); Psalm 73:3-5, 16-18, 21-28 (NLT); 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NCV); Acts 16:25-26 (NIV); Habakuk 3:17-19 (NLT); 2 Chronicles 20:18, 20-22 (NIV)
Verse – So I tried to understand why the wicked prosper. But what a difficult task it is! Then I went into your sanctuary, O God, and I finally understood the destiny of the wicked. Truly, you put them on a slippery path and send them sliding over the cliff to destruction. Then I realized that my heart was bitter, and I was all torn up inside. I was so foolish and ignorant—I must have seemed like a senseless animal to you. Yet I still belong to you; you hold my right hand. (Ps 73:16-23)
Discussion – How does recognizing that we all share the same struggles change how we see our own situation? How has worship shifted your thoughts or emotions during a difficult time? Discuss the connection between worship and perspective. (Consider the examples of Paul and Asaph.) When you are hurting, disappointed, or afraid, what practical steps can you take to choose worship as an act of faith, even if you don’t feel like it?
Prayer – Dear God, we come to You with open hearts, acknowledging that we are hurting. Thank You for meeting us in our pain and reminding us that You are bigger than anything we face. Help us choose worship when it’s hard, trust You when we’re afraid, and lift our eyes above the here and now. Fill our hearts with hope, strengthen us by Your presence, and lead us into the peace and victory that only You can give. In Jesus Name I pray, amen.
